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Some people don't get that MUST.REPRODUCE urge too badly, and so are able to deal with it...for some however, especially women, it can become a pretty life consuming focus...
wondering what, if any, are effective ways to bypass this urge, should it become an issue....
I'm just getting worried that it might take over one day, and there won't be anythign I can do!!!
wondering what, if any, are effective ways to bypass this urge, should it become an issue....
I'm just getting worried that it might take over one day, and there won't be anythign I can do!!!
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 3:39 PMThe simplest thing to do if you're a woman would be to get yourself sterilized. Lots of MUST REPRODUCE is really just societal programming, and when everybody you know is having babies, the pressure no doubt gets pretty intense.
And you can always adopt if you feel the need to take care of an infant. Babies are one thing this planet is definitely not short of. -
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sun, September 9, 2007 - 10:38 PMHaha that's funny. Well, i guess that'll work for sure, but no doubt it might also cause regret.
Personally, i feel that the option of not wanting to reproduce should be done with earnest, and it shouldn't be coupled with regret.
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Mon, September 10, 2007 - 7:01 PMget a kitten -
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Wed, September 26, 2007 - 8:21 PMGood one!
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Mon, May 12, 2008 - 12:46 PMI have the best solution for ya....
9mm + your head = no more urges.
Look at that...2 birds with one bullet. You make the urges go away ALONG WITH reducing the population by 1. It's a win win situation!!!
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Mon, May 12, 2008 - 6:01 PMGreat idea.
You go first!
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sat, August 23, 2008 - 9:24 AMJust tried to send an email to moralchildfree@yahoo.com, and found email was no longer active. I asked about their "prescription for loneliness" as it were, so I'm thinking along the same lines as this post.
I love the irony of asking about a prescription for loneliness and finding an inactive email account.
The world has become a place where we can easily distract ourselves from standard behavior related to biological urges and human interaction - particularly by slaving away over computer screens all the time. However, unfortunately, it always feels like avoidance rather than engaging in life and actually meeting our own interaction needs, right?
I don't have a good answer yet, but I'm thinking about this.
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sun, October 26, 2008 - 11:57 AMI'm pretty lucky; I just never ever had the urge.
Seriously who actually wants to go through pregnancy and childbirth anyway?
If the urge does arise for a woman, I suggest she read books about what actually happens to your body and mind during that time. It's hideous.
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sun, October 26, 2008 - 1:53 PMThe frustrating thing for me is that there seems to be absolutely nothing one can do to make it clear to these people.
I'm almost convinced that if it got to the point were the world were filled with dead bodies -there would still be people crawling their way TO GET TO THE FERTILITY CLINIC.
No religion i've heard of considers overpopulation a sin. Not even scientists seem to think it's a problem - for example I've seen a program about global warming on PBS and they didn't mention overpopulation once in an hour. Not one fucking time.
To top it all off, the main scientist featured on the program made a lot of salient points, seemed very intelligent until the end of the show - where they showed him playing with his fucking child and saying something like "we need to save our world for our children and our children's children".
The best I can figure out is it really is hard-wired in people's DNA - even if it flies in the face of common sense. I figure I and my fellow childfree humans - are mutations born without this urge.
People need to realize that the human world isn't somehow more priviliged, or more of a default than the World itself.
Which has been around 4.5 billion years before our sorry asses showed up. I don't know what pisses me off more: human arrogance or human ignorance.
It's tough to realize that one's very own species is perhaps the worst thing to ever happen to this planet.
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Re: overcoming the biological urge?
Sat, November 29, 2008 - 4:16 PMSo, wait a second....you are here posting on VHEM and acknowledge that continuing to populate the earth
is not a good thing and yet you are afraid that an "urge" to reproduce will be something that you cannot
bypass or logically talk yourself out of? As though it will be this thing whose undertow makes you want
to get pregnant? Just say no.
But if that seems a too simple answer and you already have misgivings about the undoubtedly
forthcoming "urge"( and that you may fail miserably when that time comes), I will concur with
another post and say "get your tubes tied".
Yes, the reptilian brain is challenging but I would hope that if you are smart enough to be posting here
and acknowledging the population problem, that you would have sense and intelligence enough to
resist the "urge".
And in the interim.....getting a puppy or kitten may not be a bad idea either.