overcoming the biological urge?

topic posted Sat, September 8, 2007 - 2:18 PM by  Meta
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Some people don't get that MUST.REPRODUCE urge too badly, and so are able to deal with it...for some however, especially women, it can become a pretty life consuming focus...

wondering what, if any, are effective ways to bypass this urge, should it become an issue....

I'm just getting worried that it might take over one day, and there won't be anythign I can do!!!
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  • Re: overcoming the biological urge?

    Sat, August 23, 2008 - 9:24 AM
    Just tried to send an email to moralchildfree@yahoo.com, and found email was no longer active. I asked about their "prescription for loneliness" as it were, so I'm thinking along the same lines as this post.

    I love the irony of asking about a prescription for loneliness and finding an inactive email account.

    The world has become a place where we can easily distract ourselves from standard behavior related to biological urges and human interaction - particularly by slaving away over computer screens all the time. However, unfortunately, it always feels like avoidance rather than engaging in life and actually meeting our own interaction needs, right?

    I don't have a good answer yet, but I'm thinking about this.
  • Re: overcoming the biological urge?

    Sun, October 26, 2008 - 11:57 AM
    I'm pretty lucky; I just never ever had the urge.

    Seriously who actually wants to go through pregnancy and childbirth anyway?

    If the urge does arise for a woman, I suggest she read books about what actually happens to your body and mind during that time. It's hideous.
    • Re: overcoming the biological urge?

      Sun, October 26, 2008 - 1:53 PM
      The frustrating thing for me is that there seems to be absolutely nothing one can do to make it clear to these people.

      I'm almost convinced that if it got to the point were the world were filled with dead bodies -there would still be people crawling their way TO GET TO THE FERTILITY CLINIC.

      No religion i've heard of considers overpopulation a sin. Not even scientists seem to think it's a problem - for example I've seen a program about global warming on PBS and they didn't mention overpopulation once in an hour. Not one fucking time.

      To top it all off, the main scientist featured on the program made a lot of salient points, seemed very intelligent until the end of the show - where they showed him playing with his fucking child and saying something like "we need to save our world for our children and our children's children".

      The best I can figure out is it really is hard-wired in people's DNA - even if it flies in the face of common sense. I figure I and my fellow childfree humans - are mutations born without this urge.

      People need to realize that the human world isn't somehow more priviliged, or more of a default than the World itself.

      Which has been around 4.5 billion years before our sorry asses showed up. I don't know what pisses me off more: human arrogance or human ignorance.

      It's tough to realize that one's very own species is perhaps the worst thing to ever happen to this planet.

  • Re: overcoming the biological urge?

    Sat, November 29, 2008 - 4:16 PM
    So, wait a second....you are here posting on VHEM and acknowledge that continuing to populate the earth
    is not a good thing and yet you are afraid that an "urge" to reproduce will be something that you cannot
    bypass or logically talk yourself out of? As though it will be this thing whose undertow makes you want
    to get pregnant? Just say no.

    But if that seems a too simple answer and you already have misgivings about the undoubtedly
    forthcoming "urge"( and that you may fail miserably when that time comes), I will concur with
    another post and say "get your tubes tied".

    Yes, the reptilian brain is challenging but I would hope that if you are smart enough to be posting here
    and acknowledging the population problem, that you would have sense and intelligence enough to
    resist the "urge".

    And in the interim.....getting a puppy or kitten may not be a bad idea either.

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